The Pain and Shock of Infidelity can make You Feel Crazy and Temporary Craziness Pushes Your Spouse Away and makes Your Situation Worse Learn How to Stop the Craziness, the Pain and Perhaps the Affair Now. Don't Suffer any Longer and/or Lose Your Spouse to the Other Person
I ve worked with literally thousands since I started my private practice in Marriage and Family Therapy in 1981.
The pain, confusion and utter devastation of infidelity top the list of all time personal crises. (Yes, the death of a child is close, but that grieving is understood and accepted much more than the turmoil of infidelity.)
Infidelity rocks you to your core. You fee dread, paralysis, rage and downright fear. The pain invades every cell. Day and night the pain oozes its poison. Your trust is destroyed. You now know only a stranger. Your inner compass is gone. You wonder if the affair and this pain will EVER end. Will the affair stop? Your dreams are shattered. Your self esteem is shredded. What is wrong with YOU? Are you defective? You feel cast aside. A new model has taken your place. You feel betrayed, lied to and you never thought this would happen. You feel like a loser. Someone else has won. You are embarrassed and humiliated. You feel utterly alone and want to hide. You feel ignored and diminished, like an afterthought. You feel helpless, victimized, immobilized, enraged, confused and scared to name a few. It tears at you day and night. Your mind and body can find no escape from the incessant pain.
This pain is real and powerful.
Buy Why? Why so painfully powerful? Why so emotionall debiliating?
If you are like most facing infidelity, underneath your pain is the unrelenting belief that somehow YOU ARE AT FAULT for the affair.
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